A psychic and astrological reading may give you insight on how your childhood and even your past lives might be influencing how you handle your current relationships, and what you might do to break out of emotional habits that aren’t healthy for you. If, in your heart, you feel this is a relationship that was meant to be, our psychics will give advice on what you might do to make it a strong and lasting one. After a psychic reading you may well find yourself focusing on your partnership rather than placing all the responsibility, when anything goes wrong, on your other half!
Today is a good day for you. Especially if you want to do whatever it takes to make your current romance work. Because now you can take the first step towards repairing your relationship and making it stronger by consulting one of our caring psychics.
It takes time for a broken heart to repair, and if you feel your partner still hasn’t got over a past relationship you are bound to wonder what the chances are for your romance to survive.
It might seem as if your boyfriend never stops talking about his ex, but could it be you’re acutely sensitive and instantly on the alert whenever her name comes up in conversations?
If you sincerely believe you could be good together, the good news is that the first hurdle is over. You’re the one he is with now! Your main concern is whether or not you can keep him. It might seem as if your guy is constantly comparing you with his ex, but you could be overly sensitive and getting it all wrong. Even if distrust, worry, or jealous thoughts make you upset and angry, you won’t want to make accusations that could destroy your union.
It would be most remarkable for a woman not to feel some anxiety about a relationship when she knows her guy still has feelings for his ex. But you don’t have to fret alone. Talking to your man is not a good idea as this will only alert him to the fact that you feel insecure and jealous. Some men find jealousy is a difficult emotion to deal with.
This is where consulting a psychic can help. Our psychics will be able to sense your emotions and feelings and tell you, too, what your guy really thinks about you. A psychic might advise you on whether or not you have found the man of your dreams and, if you have, how to hold on to him!
Don’t feel you have no control. Past relationships often create tensions within a new romance, and you aren’t the first woman to feel doubtful about whether or not your guy has truly gotten over a past lover. Try not to let your misgivings intrude on your relationship.
After all, it is entirely possible your man is glad to be rid of his ex and thinks you are the most fantastic thing that has ever happened to him. Consulting a psychic at S.E.E.R might help you keep everything in perspective, and this in turn will mean you are sending out all the right signals.
Maintaining a relationship is not always easy, and it may seem as if, at times, your emotions are all over the place. If your partner is telling you his ex means nothing to them but their actions contradict their words, how can you believe them? It could be that they are finding it hard to push the past behind them and, if so, there may be ways you can help him move on. A psychic might suggest a solution that is helpful for you both.
Now that you have found love, you will want to make every effort to make this a lasting romance. The best way to cope with these kind of anxieties is to talk to someone who will understand. Our psychics at S.E.E.R will sense exactly what is going on in your life and is therefore in a good position to give you some wise advice.
There are steps you can take to help you start feeling more confident about your role in your partner’s life and to make your relationship more secure. First of all, you need to tell yourself that you aren’t competing with their ex. They are in the past and, if you continue to play your cards right, you are their future.
Next, ask yourself whether it’s because you don’t feel as attractive or as feminine as “she” was. If this is so, bite your lips when you are tempted to ask about her appearance and sexuality. Remember, your intention is to stop him from comparing you both, not to encourage it!
A negative outlook on life or relationships, and uncertainty on where you stand romantically can make it hard for you to look at your long-term future for fear of building your hopes up too high. Your confidence might suffer a bit of a knock if you feel your man’s heart belongs to another.
Give your relationship a chance by accepting you aren’t her and never will be. You have your own special qualities to offer. A psychic will be able to sense whether your man is subconsciously comparing you with his ex and, if so, you might consider ways to make your romance more interesting, mysterious, and exciting.
If and when your guy mentions his ex, remember that this does not mean he still loves her. A relationship break-up is rarely easy emotionally. Men also get hurt and need time to adjust and get used to being with a new partner. He might find it hard to suppress his feelings and may occasionally find it is helpful to talk to you.
It takes determination and dedication to get over the emotional stumbling blocks that can litter the initial stages of a relationship, especially when you might suspect your man is in rebound status. Be patient and eventually he will conquer any emotional hold his ex might still have on him, and you will feel more certain that it’s your relationship that truly matters.
Don’t keep your worries to yourself, but at the same time you shouldn’t allow your uncertainty, whether it is imagined or real, to keep you from investing in your romantic future. Often the key is better communication, and consulting with one of our psychics at S.E.E.R could help you see the solutions to your problem so much more clearly.
Remember that for the sake of your future happiness it’s important not to keep your suspicions bottled up inside. Contact one of our psychics and, as well as a problem shared being a problem halved, you will be given sensitive and meaningful advice that will help you safeguard the future of your relationship.
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